Sensual massage is a great healing AND erotic way to wake up the body’s senses to new levels of excitement and joy. You could say it is a full body mind and spiritual experience.

The type of massage I give is a combination of Swedish, Esalem, Shiatsu and Tantric.

I also give Thai nude massage, which is given without the use of a massage table.

Thai massage is a very physical, kind of like yoga for lazy people. Very little oil is used in this type of massage and not as relaxing as a sensual massage. Husbands are welcome to be present as long as it helps the wife to be relaxed. In fact it can enhance a relationship as partners may learn a thing or two and that makes the lady happy.

Relax

 It’s important that you are relaxed, so you can enjoy the experience of maybe receiving the healing benefits of massage, not to mention extended or multiple orgasms as part of the experience. It helps if you have received other types of massage and body work. Some clients come to me that have never received a massage or very little touch at all for that matter. In these cases it can take some time before the person becomes fully relaxed.

Where the Massage is given

I perform the sensual erotic massage while you lying on a massage table. The massages are generally given in hotels, villas, yachts and homes. I also get request work off island in varies countries. I also have my own massage studio on Saint Marten if clients are more comfortable away from their hotel. It is also okay for a husband to be present as long as the client is more relaxed that way. I am comfortable just knowing that the client is comfortable.

Setting

I recommend you pay attention to the detail of the setting.  Take the time to create a sensual warm and appealing environment for your erotic massage. And it advised to start by turning off the phones. You may want to put a "Do Not Disturb" sign on the door, illuminate the room with either candles or soft indirect lamps, burn incense, and turn off air-conditioning to where one would be comfortable lying down naked. I bring my own CD player, music, incense and candles and oil to be burned if needed. I also provide soothing beanbag eye cover if needed.

 I like to cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket if you have one available or a towel for your comfort.

After the massage is finished. I may stroke the body with feathers.  I can be nude or not.

Good Communication

During both the relaxation and sensual part of your erotic massage it's important for the client on the table to always feel comfortable making requests and comments. I would like you to feel free to mention anything that is getting in the way of your comfort and pleasure. Some ladies find that sex and/or pleasure can bring up difficult emotional issues for them (this is common in all types of massage).  This is very normal and I am accustomed to dealing with this situation. I have been doing bodywork for many years. I have also taken courses in counseling.

 Situations where I am giving a massage that shift a relaxation massage into an erotic realm for the first time, but the receiving lady was expecting or wanting only relaxation massage, can be uncomfortable and embarrassing at the least. So it is important to give as much information as possible on what you wish to receive. If you only wish to receive a regular therapeutic massage that is fine and it will be done at the highest level.  

Relaxing Your Body

I start by connecting with your breath. This calms the mind and relaxes the body. I like to start with a short time of non-touching energy work to introduce my energy to my client.

When you are ready, you lie face down, naked (or with clothing on if you wish, remember this whole experience is about your satisfaction), on the massage table or bed if you prefer. I then ask you to relax and focus your mind on your breathing. And the wonderful healing erotic experience your about to receive. I will then rest my hands on your upper and lower back. This being only an example as no one massage is ever the same, it’s always a totally individual experience.  

The Massage

After I will perform a relaxing massage on the back, buttocks, legs, and feet. The movement will be rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones as I introduce myself to your body.

 After relaxing you back, legs, and feet (this could take about 15 minutes or more) I may move the body into vary positions to release holding patterns or to increase eroticism. I may then ask you to turn over. I would then massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. I may brush the genital area, when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. With This teasing process I take my time and it will be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc. At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a n natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities. My goal is to bring you to a high level of arousal, and keep you there for a while. This is best done through verbal or non-verbal

Communication.  At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a n natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activity.

This allows stimulation to be slowed down, changed, or stopped before orgasm becomes inevitable (stimulation then continues in a few moments, after the urgency fades). This is best done by using G-Spot and/or clitoral massage to bring you to multiple orgasms, which naturally tend to take place over an extended period of time. I like to receive as much information as possible as how far to go in the massage. As having someone pleasure you with their hands doesn't tend to bring up the same set of cultural fears and judgments that oral sex or intercourse sometimes does.

With this teasing process I take my time and it will be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc.

If this is your first massage: I do my best to focus on your breathing and become in sync with your body, and depending on information that is given to me, go further.  The rest of the massage will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations. One of the skills that come with this practice is being able to read the energy and arousal levels. And smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage.

Tantric Variations and Enhancements

Conscious Breathing

Tantric sex is nothing to do with religion; it’s an ancient spiritual path of Yoga that is taken to many levels. All is takes is a willingness to investigate and experience. I have been studying Tantric sex in India and it can make sex mind blowing. It involves breathing and freeing your mind as in any meditation. Then of course you’re getting into the Karma Sutra stuff that I find really exciting. You try to breath in sync together and delay orgasm. I find it really adds to enhance sexual experiences, though discipline is required.

Regular, conscious breathing is a powerful way to enhance both relaxation massage and erotic massage. If the receiving partner forgets to breathe, I will remind her to keep breathing rhythmically and audibly.


Tantric sex

I have been getting a lot of request for information on Tantric sex. Here is a little more info:

Tantric sex is a spiritual practice that involves retaining one’s seed (not to come). What I have found for myself is if you practice doing Kegel exercises-that is your pubococcygeal muscle (the one to stop you peeing) by contracting them for two to 10 seconds several times throughout the day.

After a few weeks I noticed a difference in how I was able to hold off on orgasm.

When you feel like your getting near to coming try taking slow deep breaths and have you partner do the same, and then work your newfound muscle by doing the Kegel exercise. When you feel like your about to come hold your breath and –and here is the Tantric part-feel the sexual energy rise up from your groin, through your back, till it goes above your head. 

Now this takes practice and discipline but eventually, you’ll learn to achieve “whole body-body,” non-ejaculatory orgasms that don’t sap your mojo. If you come to enjoy this you may find yourself studying Tantric practices and going for hours at a time.

Your women will truly appreciate the effort. 

I will be happy to supply any further information you may require.

All the best 

Carl

You can contact me at sensual_massagesxm@yahoo.com